This is the third post I’ve written in reference to Robert
Greene’s Book, The Art of Seduction. Yes, it fascinates me till no end. While
whisking through the words of comparable history of the darkest intent, I saw
myself as one of the nine seducers. The description reminds me of comments made
about my own demeanor. Not just how I behave in a relationship, but how my
personality type is portrayed. The very seductress I am referring to is The Coquette.
She is hot and cold. At one end of the spectrum, showing
passion and fire and shifting to the cold and despondent. The historical significance
of Josephine as the coquette and how driven Napoleon became as a result, gives
the reader a clearer picture of its operation. She was cold in her
correspondence and hardly prompt at replies. Sounds a bit like how I respond to
phone calls and texts. The coquette is self-sufficient and never jealous. The
victim samples a taste of captivating desire and is then doused with ice-cold
indifference. From what I understand, this will drive a man mad with desire. He
has to have this self-sufficient woman with her cat-like independence and
confident ways.
But I’m not trying to seduce anyone, this is just how I am.
In fact, you’ll find that most INTJs are this way. As an introvert, I need to
recharge. Even if I am really into someone, I will back away. Also, when I’m
and NOT into someone, I will back away. This creates problems at times,
stalkers and obsessive types become entranced or mesmerized. It is a real eye
opener to understand the seductive effective this can have.
After reading the entire book, I was disappointed that there
wasn’t a direct correlation of what seducer/victim types are most commonly
attracted. Greene does indicate that one should not seduce someone of the same
type. Napoleon was The Conqueror
victim type, a type I am not particularly fond of but have found myself trying
to end those types of relationships. This being said any relationship involving
an extrovert makes me want to bash my head into something obliterating. The Rescuer is easy to attract because a
self-sufficient attitude may prevail, there is always a troubling situation in paradise
that one may need saving from. I find the rescuer too controlling and aggravating.
Now that I am thinking about it, I wonder which victim type I
find worthy of seducing.
(Not that I would ever do such a thing.)
Love this article..just tapping into the book. The victim type you would want to seduce is one that is hard to read. Most croquettes love a challenge but once you break them you will lose interest...only downfall
ReplyDeleteAs an INTJ who is a Robert Greene fan, I solidly concur.
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ReplyDeleteI thought the charmer sounded much more accurate.
"Let others get angry"
I concur as well I am just me and whether you like me or not is up to your ideals, freewill and perception
ReplyDeleteI prefer dating someone who likes me for me not what I could be with a few tweaks, and expect the same authenticity
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